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Is Hijab the Man’s obligation?

I came across this twitter thread from Qasim Rashid and found it to be interesting. I usually get triggered by men who talk about hijab because mostly they dismiss it with something that ends with “woman, it’s your duty not mine” and don’t think for a second about their obligations.

So to see more men speaking up about their obligations

Thoughts on this?

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Muslims Around the World Tour!

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم

Today I’d like to drag you all on a “Muslims around the World” tour to show you the extensive diversity that makes up the 1.6 billion Muslims around the world!

Often times when the word “Muslim” is uttered, a brown, arab looking male or female comes to mind, usually with a beard if it’s a guy, and a hijab if it’s a woman, but that’s far from the truth! 

1. Chinese Muslims

Eid al-Fitr prayer in Beijing

I was surprised to find that there are around 20 million Chinese Muslims, a number that might seem small at first when compared to the overall population of China, but great if you consider that pre-dominantly Muslims countries such as Iraq for example, also have around 20 million Muslims. The large community of Muslims in China have they’re own culture and traditions whilst holding on to their religion. It’s actually fascinating to see the differences between mosques in Jordan let’s say, and China. To learn more about the history and culture of Chinese Muslims you can visit this excellent blog: Islam in China

***Unfortunately, there are some crazy things going on in China right now. The Xinjiang region or East Turkestan, as it’s known prior to the Chinese invasion, is actually going through some insane changes. The Chinese government plans to eradicate the muslim culture present in the area and reinforce their communistic beliefs. Some really crazy stuff is going on there right now. You can check this video out to get an idea: China Detention Center

2. Israeli Muslims

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There are 1.2 million Muslims in Israel, and they comprise the 2nd largest major religion in Israel after Israeli Jews. 20 percent of those Muslims are believed to have settled in the region during the Ummayad Dynasty in the 8th Century. The remaining are compromised mainly of Palestinian Arabs who have stayed in the region, but who nontheless would still be refferred to as “Israeli Muslims”.

3. North Korea

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Before anything, I’d like to know how on earth those 3,000 Muslims got to North Korea, or any Muslims for that matter. From documentaries I’ve seen about North Korea, they do not have a religion, are not allowed religion, and they are all supposed to worship their leader. Even if they do practice a religion, it would have to be done in secret, so where did those numbers come from? Anyways, I thought I would include this because I think it’s really interesting to think that there are people with Quran’s about to break their fast in North Korea. Also, here’s an interesting article about the “First Mosque in North Korea”

4. Maldives Islands

This fabulous tourist destination was introduced to Islam in the 12th century*, prior to this it was primarily Bhuddist. It’s not very clear how the transition from Bhuddism to Islam happened, but today, it is a muslim majority country. There are plenty of mosques there and halal food is widely available, which makes it even more amazing and is definitely on my “Places I must visit as soon as I stop being broke!”

5. Fiji

That’s right! Did you know there are an estimated 62,000 muslims residing in Fiji (7% of the Fijian population). Workers were brought in in the late 1800’s to work on plantations in Fiji, these people mainly came from India, Pakistan and Baluchian-Afghanistan, bringing their religion along with them. Despite the passing of the years, the Muslim community in Fiji remains strong and intact with their religious beliefs. If you plan on visiting this lovely island, be sure to stop by Suva to enjoy some of the halal cuisine there as well as to visit some of their beautiful mosques!

That concludes our little tour! I hope you learned something new, did any of these especially surprise you? 

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Intimacy in Movies? Do you watch it or skip?

Salam!
This topic has been on my mind lately, since I’ve been obsessed with this show called You on Netflix (which btw I just finished binge watching, thanks a lot self control!)

The problem is, just like many other adult shows now a days, there are some themes we can’t get away from, and a lot of intimacy on all levels throughout the show.

So I wonder, what’s okay and what’s not okay when watching these shows from a religious perspective? A purely religious perspective.

I surely don’t have any answers, and I haven’t done any research on the matter either. But I did want to have a dialogue about it, and just sort of ask and see what your personal opinion is.

Personally, I don’t feel comfortable with it, like it’s fine if there are a lot of make out/sex scenes, for the most part it won’t stop me from watching a show as long as there’s a captivating plot.

I do however, generally skip or turn a blind eye to these scenes because on some level I feel like it’s not okay to watch. Which I know some people might find a little extra considering that I’m a grown woman, but it’s the truth, I just don’t feel comfortable with it.

The first reason being that it’s almost like watching people’s PDA, but like on an extra level. Like it’s TMI most of the time, it’s unrealistic, it’s a show- it’s not even real. And beyond the screen, at the end of the day, it’s just two people in front of the camera on a set, where there is an entire crew crowded around them and focused on them for that moment while they make out or have pretend sex or maybe even real sex. Like that just makes it kind of painful for me to watch to be honest. Knowing that it’s so manufactured and like, awkward.

And then, the expectations it sets you up for, again, it’s not real. Kisses don’t look like that in real life, the same way relationships don’t work the same way that they do on screen than they do offscreen. Not just the actors relationships, I’m talking about real life. I don’t want to create false expectations for myself, and I really do believe that the content we feed our mind, makes us, the same way we are what we eat; we are also the content we consume.

And my final reason, is that I find this whole thing unnatural. If you rewind time back to before Netflix existed and cellphones and video cameras- the only time you would see these extremely dramatized forms of affection in every way on every level, was never. It simply didn’t exist.

If you wanted to see people making out, or even kissing, it would generally be on the street, or maybe your parents, or friends or some or other form of that. You did not have access to a zoomed in, nicely formatted display of the experience. There were no front seats to watch this stuff from, you couldn’t replay and gape at what’s going on like you can at your phone or laptop screen. It was like, either you’re experiencing it, or you don’t really get to see it in that much detail. How many of you stop to stare with full intensity at people who are making out?

And then the sex scenes? You would really have to go out of your way to see people doing it before all this digital stuff came to be. I mean, can you imagine just sitting there staring with full intensity in someones room? Like why. For the purposes of watching my shows, all I need to know is that something happened between the characters, I don’t need that much detail. I really don’t.

I understand that maybe a group of younger teenagers who are curious, might be interested in seeing every detail of any and all intimate scenes in a movie or show. But to me, it gets to a point where- there’s no point in watching these scenes in every other show I come across. If I know what’s going down, I really don’t need to explicitly see every detail. Or at least, that’s how I feel about it and that’s my personal take on this.

What do you personally think?

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Your Cultural Practices aren’t Islam

Somewhere in my spiritual journey a few years ago, I began questioning so many of the things I, and the other muslims around me did. Mistreatment of gays/lesbians, calling certain races superior or inferior to others, not mixing with people of different muslim sects, etc.

Why, I wondered, did we do all this? Continue reading

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