CAN MUSLIMS RAP? MONA HAYDAR CONTROVERSY

The fact that this is even considered news is crazy, but the reality is, I didn’t know how to feel about it when I saw it either. If you don’t know what I’m talking about, then boy are you missing out!

A Syrian immigrant from Detroit posted a music video in her hijab and the world went crazy about it.

When I first came across this video, I didn’t know how to feel about it. It was a mixture of   it’s great that there are some hijabis breaking stereotypes, but also, the message sounded a bit too extreme in my opinion. It sounded a little like a man-hating chant to be honest, but the beat was pretty sick, and those dance moves were pretty cool too. The pregnancy part kind of weirded me out a little, actually a lot, but music videos are always a sight.

Despite that, I still enjoyed the song, and it was whatever- but apparently nothing is whatever when a muslim does it now a days.

The reaction in the comments section was like a battlefield- as per usual. Another digital crusade- you had muslim haters there, the haram police, people who were confused and people who were just straight up trash talking her for no reason and calling her out on being such a sinner.

I was genuinely scared for the hate and backlash this girl was getting, and I legit thought she would probably get overwhelmed and just stop. Then today, she posted this on her channel:

 

The real question on my mind is; would this have been as controversial if she wasn’t wearing a hijab? Imagine if she’d posted these videos with her hair done and dressed scantily with an “Allah (swt)” tattoo on her shoulder, would it have been just as controversial then?

Most likely not. Muslims judge muslim women without hijabs in a more lenient manner. She would have been labeled as a “bad muslim” and her video would’ve just become one of the many music videos on youtube today. I think the real reason Mona Haydar’s music videos became controversial is the fact that she is dressed like most modest orthodox muslims now a days, and the message she’s trying to send isn’t that “she’s going to do what she wants and not care about anything” the message she’s trying to send is that ” I’m doing whatever I want without trespassing the boundaries of Allah so none of you can say anything to me” in other words, she’s trying to say that I make music, I wear a hijab, I’m an exemplary muslim, and this is allowed by my religion and you have to accept it at a time when in some muslim cultures, hearing a woman’s voice alone is considered haram. At a time when even a woman showing her face, her identity, is seen as haram and twisted into the religion by the same sheikh’s who are sending Mona DM’s on her Insta.

It sounds like a joke, it should be a joke, but is unfortunately, a reality in many muslim communities today.

To conclude this opinionated rant:

The only real problem I have with Mona Haydar’s second song, is that I wouldn’t feel comfortable having it blare out of my car whilst driving because I know that others will only hear the “he’s a dog, he’s a dog”  which is kind of offensive. And I know that artistically speaking, the video was talking about rapists and sexual offenders and such, but at the same time it still sounds somewhat vulgar to me for some reason.

And while I totally dig the beat and the fact that Mona Haydar is still going at it strong, I can’t say that I will be rapping with my hijab anytime soon, but I’m definitely glad some other hijabi is doing it out there so that I don’t get as much heat if I ever wanted to do it.

Bottom line, whether you hate or love Mona Haydar- the girl is creating culture and a reality of culture is that the more you see something, the more it becomes normal- the more it becomes culture. And for western muslims, we have no culture, and we need more things like this, instead of forcing muslim artists able to only convey their art Hollywood style, we should let them express themselves the way they want without de-islamifying them for it. We can’t have a strong community without a solid culture to bond us, and that’s what artists like Mona Haydar do.

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Also, your girl Dina Tokio seems to approve! I find it really cool when I see muslims supporting other muslims like this.


Quick Bio of Mona Haydar: Mona Haydar is a poet, activist practitioner of Permaculture, meditator, composting devotee, mountain girl, solar power lover and a tireless God-enthusiast. She practices a life of sacred activism, poetry, contemplation and advocacy for living gently upon the Earth. She teaches classes and retreats on mindfulness and Islamic spirituality, leads workshops on creative writing and performs her poetry. Her words have found homes in the hearts of seekers, wanderers, poets, artists, lovers and stewards of the Earth. She grew up in Flint, Michigan, graduated from the University of Michigan and has since lived in Damascus where she studied Arabic and Islamic spirituality then went on to live in the mountains of Northern New Mexico at Lama Foundation and in the Redwood forest of Northern California with her husband and son. Mona and her husband, Sebastian set up a stand in Cambridge, Massachusetts with signs that read ‘Talk to a Muslim’ ‘free coffee and donuts’ ‘free conversation’ and ‘Ask a Muslim’ encouraging open and loving dialogue which garnered the attention of NPR, Al Jazeera, The Boston Globe among other media outlets. Currently she is working on her second collection of poems and her first work of nonfiction on Islamic Spirituality through the lens of other spiritual traditions. She is working towards her Masters in Divinity. Mona helps to grow a more universal love with her activism, writing, performing and teaching. http://www.monahaydar.com. More about Mona.

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My Message to Brothers Searching for “Nice Hijab A$$” on Google

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First off, I couldn’t decide whether to title this post “The Embarrassing Muslim” or just plain “WTF are Muslim Guys Googling?”

Before I go on ranting, let me show you these pictures from my Blog Stats.

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Let me explain. What you just saw are phrases that people have found my blog through. They are things people have searched. These are not the only ones, they are just several, and keep in mind my blog is small.

Now, my problem with this, isn’t that there are some muslim guys, or girls spending their time on the internet searching for this stuff, it’s the fact that I know, in some twisted way, a brother out there has convinced himself that trading the word “hijab” for “girls” would somehow make it okay to look this up.

That it’s less haram somehow, and maybe even justified and halal in his mind to look at pictures of Hijabi girls and not girls. And let me just straight up say no to this. No, no, no. This is embarrassing for our muslim community. If you want to do something wrong, go do it wrong, but don’t try to twist the religion into it. That’s unacceptable.

Furthermore, in Islam the deal was for women to be modest and chaste and for men to lower their gaze and cover from the navel to the knees. Why is it that lowering “the gaze” part is often under scrutinized, while the hijab is put under the microscope and overly judged? Additionally, and this is a bit off-topic, why is it that when at a beach or a resort, muslim guys rush to strip to their shorts as to not be a covered obscenity in a beach, but the wife or sister wouldn’t budge to take off her hijab, because she knows a deal is a deal and Allah’s word is Allah’s word.

How can such a guy expect the woman next to him to look different in her chastity while he couldn’t even bear to keep his t-shirt on his chest not because it’s hot outside- but because he looks too different covered like that. And then he dares to judge her if a hair is out of her hijab, or if her sleeves are too short- all without realizing that he shouldn’t have been looking so intently at her like that in the first place! Revive your part of the chastity deal men!

And let me take a moment to say that not all guys are like this, and many of our muslim men are nothing but supportive and respectful and truly chaste on their part, but we could use more men like them in our community and it doesn’t hurt to point out some things that need fixing, especially when it’s a cultural issue rather than a theological one.

Bottom line, fellas if you want some hijab ass I’ll be your Google and answer the question for you; you won’t find any. Briefly put, hijab is a chaste woman, and not everything wrapped in a scarf qualifies as one. Better luck dropping that first word out of your search words next time; you’ll get the real results you’re looking for.


Thank you for taking the time to read my rant, I deeply appreciate it and truly hope you enjoyed reading this, even if I was being so extra in it! If you would like to read more stuff like this, you can follow my blog by clicking the follow button on the side bar, or you can simply add my site to your bookmarks (even though I feel like no one even checks their bookmarks?) Furthermore, it helps me out tremendously when people share my posts via Facebook, so if it’s not too much trouble please share it? 🙂
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Also, a huge thanks to this person who used my URL to come visit my blog again! It means a lot, you rock! 😉

THE BASIC MUSLIM TAG | 15 Questions for Muslim Youtubers to do!

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بِسْمِ اللهِ الرَّحْمٰنِ الرَّحِيْمِ

The internet could seriously use a blogpost like this since I couldn’t find a proper tag for muslims to do. If you’re a muslim youtuber or even blogger, this would be a fun set of questions to answer to have your followers get to know more about you while being entertained, enjoy and feel free to add or change anything!

Also, please don’t start any religious debates from these questions, they’re supposed to be a cool way to learn more about each other, not a heated political/religious debate, ok? Ok, so here they are: Continue reading

Muslim Girl’s reaction to Trump’s Presidential Victory | 2016

I’m in utter disbelief. It took America hundreds of years to finally select the first black president back in 2008, a move that most would call progressive. With him being selected there was actually hope that Martin Luther King’s dream wouldn’t remain a dream, that America had finally moved on from the silly dividing notions of race and ethnicities.

And what happens eight short years after? A candidate wins for having beliefs to discriminate against ethnicities and religions and races and even genders. Millions of people lie in their graves, shaking with the notion that their death for the Civil War, or the suffragist movement turned into a full circle back to where it was.

My problem isn’t with Trump so much as it is with his supporters. The ones that have come out and said things that are absolutely wrong to the core, yet in their mind it’s mysteriously justified in some unexplainable way. Whether it’s regarding building the wall (which a latina wholeheartedly supported Trump for) or the many women that gave him nearly half their votes disregarding his misconducts against women, with some female supporters telling the victims “to get over it” as if it were nothing. Do I even need to elaborate further on the wrongness of this whole situation and the election? Do I need to mention any of the other rude and offensive things he’s said, and the stances he’s taken on issues?

There is a lot I can say about this topic, but it all comes down to the shock that is the millions who share this sentiment towards other ethnicities and elected him solely for this purpose. The ones who selected them as their “hero” to purge America of all that is different in order to make it “great again”

 

Furthermore, is anyone else worried that the future president, or whoever is running his twitter does not know proper english. Let’s just hope it’s a typo.

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Anyways, the reality is like with any president, only so much can be changed in the country in four, or God forbid eight years. And if anything, we’ll at least enjoy some good antics from Trump on TV. Let’s just hope none of those antics initiate a WW3. That wouldn’t be so great.

MY GIFT TO YOU THIS MUHARRAM | NEW ISLAMIC YEAR

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بِسْمِ اللهِ الرَّحْمٰنِ الرَّحِيْمِ

For the New Islamic Year, I’d like to give you guys a gift from the Qur’an:

” وَهُوَ مَعَكُمْ أَيْنَ مَا كُنْتُمْ “

 It’s a wonderful reminder that wherever we are, wherever we go- that whatever happens this upcoming year and wherever we end up- through every detail of it, Allah (SWT) has been, and will be with us through it. That He will be witness to all of our highs and lows, and what ever hardships we face and how we’ll bravely overcome them or how we’ll terribly fail, through this entire process of changing and becoming who we are, Allah (SWT) will be witness. 

I’m saying this as a reminder to tell you that HE will see all that you do this year, and also as a reminder that hey- HE will be there- so don’t forget to call on HIM. During both, the highs and lows, in gratitude and in cries for help, don’t forget that HE’s there. Truly feel his presence, and let it envelope you with feelings of safety and tranquility and righteous company. Happy Islamic New Years guys.

~M.G

10 AWESOME HIJABI YOUTUBERS YOU SHOULD KNOW!

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Here is a  hand-picked list of 10 Awesome Hijabi YouTubers that you should definitely check out!

1. ESLIMAH

What I love about this Youtuber is that her love for the religion is contagious, just watching her videos will grow your appreciation for Islam more. Continue reading

Film Fridays: What Does London Think of Muslims??

Who else watches Adam Saleh? I love his videos, and I picked out this video from his Vlog channel because I thought it’s pretty cool.